Why NF/ST relations are worth it?

[jessica129]

Yes, exactly. It is a little harder to crack the ST shell since logic clings to the old adage "once bitten, twice shy". Any perceived threat to their emotional balance precipitates distance, until trust is established. They must know that you are not going to give up on them. They must be consistently reassured that your feelings are not fleeting, nor based upon simple desire (including a desire to own or control them).

I have never experienced a love more innocent or pure than that of an ST. It is very grounded, stable, and honest. Initially, you will be shut out, tested, taunted and mistrusted. Once the trial is over, and you have proven yourself worthy of such timeless devotion, you will know nothing more beautiful, gentle or tender than the heart of an ST.

Getting "in" is certainly not a task for the faint of heart. I believe only an NF can manage this endeavor. Idealism rides out any storm.

I like this post. We do have hearts, it's nice to know someone can see we have the capability to love and be loved. It's just a very long process.

very, very long process.

[xyz]

I like this post. We do have hearts, it's nice to know someone can see we have the capability to love and be loved. It's just a very long process.

very, very long process.

Yeah. Thanks Zenbrat.

[UDP]

I like this post. We do have hearts, it's nice to know someone can see we have the capability to love and be loved. It's just a very long process.

very, very long process.

Yes.