And also in regard to Garmon's post: What if we lived in a society where attraction was based on effort instead of being visual pleasing?

The girls who don't like to put in effort would be the least attractive. The ones who put in a lot of effort would be the most admired. But the ones who DO put in more effort are usually the girls who are the least secure with themselves... and that's why they need the attention the effort gives them. So this sort of society would sort of blow because we would be rewarding insecure/attention-seeking behavior.

Bleh.

Wait. Never mind. Our society does that too.
Eh, there's no way to win.