What guarantee then do I have at your ability to accurately V.I.?I don't trust other people's V.I. abilities. People on this forum are not very good at V.I.
Following this understanding, then I would lean more towards J, but the way that J is described in MBTI is far too rigid and inflexible.The P types are clearly different. They are not trying to control the course of events but are instead trying to adapt to them in the most optimal way. That's also a clearly observable manifestation of irrationality in Socionics.
That's another rather clear indication of rationality, and there seems to be no reason for you to identify with P in MBTT. You have simply misunderstood the nature of Se-PoLR and/or the nature of P in MBTT.
The LII may be internally driven, but there is still an incorrect perception that because of the "J-like" the LII/EII is not a procrastinator or cannot somehow be lazy and exhibit "P-like" qualities. Again, the J discussion in a great deal of MBTI creates the picture of an incredibly rigid and inflexible character. This is an empirical misconception.
So let's keep Phaedrus's statement about the Se-PoLR in the LII in mind when looking at the INTP description, shall we?
External pressure.Independence, derived primarily from strongly introverted Thinking, leads to perhaps the most difficult aspect (for others) of the INTP, namely stubbornness. If an INTP is pushed into doing something he will automatically resist. The reason for the resistance is simply that any action must first be filtered by the Ti, guided by the Ne. He must be given the chance to reach an independent decision, approving or rejecting the action. Hence, he must withdraw to allow the analysis process to work. If withdrawal is not allowed then stubborn resistance is the inevitable result. However, others may not always find the INTP excessively stubborn, since the decision-making process can sometimes be rapidly accelerated when intuition takes the upper hand. The best way to get an INTP to do something is to suggest the idea as an option and let him sleep on it. Ultimately, the INTP must always believe that it is his decision. Once he is satisfied that the decision was independently reached, then he is content.