EIIs-INFjs dwelling on things and analyzing for the long term

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Hahaha, you guys really love to explain and analyze things that are important to you. You guys seem to like dwelling in in, which is interesting. I'm more "alright, let's talk about this, and be clear, and then move on".


What do you like to really analyze, INFjs?
And people who know INFjs, what do they analyze most often?

I deeply analyze my perpective on something. Did I make the right moves, was I fair and impartial, could I have done something differently; if I had done something differently, how would have things played out. I think about all the facets and aspects of not only my approach but the possible outcomes and the future of how a situation will uncover itself. What I am most worried about is f-ing up. I want things very much to be very good and turn out happy, positive and well.

I analyze the feelings of individuals most often; did I hurt them, who needs attention from me, what day should I deliver gifts, have I left anyone out, who needs what concern when.

I think about the things I will buy, will it be enough, how many, what color, shape, size, so many things to thank and analyze about.

I over analyze everything most importantly people's behavior and why people do things the way they do.

An example:
I spent lots of time thinking about Mariella and if my approach was over the top and how guilty I felt for loosing my mind on her when I did not mean to. I thought about my objective in me speaking with her, I also think about the positives in the individual and automatically focus on that; with Mariella, my mind said there must be some hidden quality about this individual that I need to get in touch with within me first.

With people, I focus on the specifics then the specifics go into the big picture.