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    I think JRiddy's identification with type 3 is much more easily explained by a combination of the 6 wing and social variant than by some radical alteration in interpretation of the enneagram.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
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    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

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    Isha is always right ^_^
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    I can see why socionics is useful, and I've read a lot of articles on why other people are interested in it. But enneagram... I've tried reading about it, but I can't really see why it's useful, or not a vast simplification of other forms of experience-based psychology, or why so many people here adhere to it, apart from a bias towards types and labels.
    Very well put.

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    Enneagram seems to exclusively determine behavior. Any socionics type can be any enneagram type, so that adds another subtype basically. An enneagram type can tell you a lot about how someone will be behavior wise. Look at it this way, socionics is the tool, enneagram is how the tool is used. I think the enneagram is a perfectly fine system.

    This is a nice and simple enneagram site- www.9types.com
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    Enneagram is more in depth and well study than Socionics. Socionics is more interesting because of inter-type relationship. I am a firm believer of putting Enneagram and Socionic together. And together, I think you will find the "right dual-right person".
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    ennegram is more easily observable and speaks about a mostly different realm of psychology than socionics

    Socionics is about perception of information and relationships.

    Enneagram is about fixations. Fears that you dwell on and thrust outwards trying to compensate for them.
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    Enneagram is poor at descibing anything. It's fundamentally inaccurate model of describing someones psyche. In some areas research in enneagram has touched areas that has been overlooked in socionics. There's a clear tendency that many of the people who use lot of enneagram in their typings are poor at getting peoples socionics types right.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    So, while Socionics is useful for understanding intertype relations, the enneagram is useful for understanding yourself and how you should act to feel at "peace" with yourself/how you can develop.
    This is addressed in socionics also.

    Socionics describes our conscious only. The enneagram gives us a method to work with our unconscious.
    Only 1/4 of socionics functions describe persons ego.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    How so?
    Dualization, dimensionalilty of functions etc. There's lot of articles written about this subject.

    As I see it, the conscious mind uses all 8 functions. Only because two are called "ego"-functions, doesn't mean we have only those functions in our Ego, we have the whole of model A there, we're just not using all functions as much. I am aware that some try to fit the functions into ego, super-ego, id, super-id as an analog to Freud, but imo, this is very forced and has nothing to do with the real unconscious. I think it's pure bullshit. And that was straight from my conscious.
    If you think that way, then explain how the insecurities, blockades, needs, valuing and devaluing concerning the non-ego functions are formed, if they are all within the ego. If it's all within the ego, why would one need to form defence mechanisms to protect themselves from these insecurities? Everything you can consciously think within your ego, you can consciously think and enact differently. In Freud's theory not even entire ego is conscious.
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    This is addressed in socionics also.
    Socionics is much more about relationships. However, if you are very unstable yourself no relationship will be well- everything will be completely your own fault, so it's pointless to process with people. So therefore, enneagram is more important. You can't have a relationship with anybody on the planet unless you are primarily taking care of yourself, which is what enneagram advocates.

    Therefore, I find enneagram a lot more useful than socionics.

    If you are well within yourself, at least adequately- you will attract people (both friends and lovers) to start a relationship with. However, if you aren't in a good frame of mind, people will instinctively avoid you for their own self-protection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    ...Yeah.

    I can see why socionics is useful, and I've read a lot of articles on why other people are interested in it. But enneagram... I've tried reading about it, but I can't really see why it's useful, or not a vast simplification of other forms of experience-based psychology, or why so many people here adhere to it, apart from a bias towards types and labels. I'd appreciate it if someone could try to explain it to me. Thank you!
    People like it because it's less technical and more of a mystical archetype system. It can sort of be used to give a vague indication of personality, but it's not as clear or confining as a Socionics type. It's also much easier to learn in the first place if you're not so analytical.

    In fact, I would say that the systems lie on a spectrum:

    Enneagram ---------- MBTI ---------- Socionics

    Mystical ----------------------------- Practical
    Emotional-----------------------------Analytical
    Holistic ------------------------------ Precise
    Archetypal ---------------------------Systematized
    Vague -------------------------------Specific

    Basically, Enneagram is Right-brained, Socionics is Left-brained, and MBTI is somewhere in between.

    That's my take on it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    I guess what I don't understand is, why do people here use the enneagram and not, say, Maslow's hierarchy of needs or Erikson's stages of psychosocial development or Freud's model of psychosexual development There's certainly more evidence to back them up, and they're a lot more comprehensive and adaptable than type-based mental health analysis.
    Exactly my thoughts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by athenian200 View Post
    People like it because it's less technical and more of a mystical archetype system. It can sort of be used to give a vague indication of personality, but it's not as clear or confining as a Socionics type. It's also much easier to learn in the first place if you're not so analytical.

    In fact, I would say that the systems lie on a spectrum:

    Enneagram ---------- MBTI ---------- Socionics

    Mystical ----------------------------- Practical
    Emotional-----------------------------Analytical
    Holistic ------------------------------ Precise
    Archetypal ---------------------------Systematized
    Vague -------------------------------Specific
    Yes nice one.

    Probably the most important difference is that Socionics explanations can be retraced to underlying cognitive functions, while enneagram sticks only to the surface so to say. This difference is a fundamental part of dividing 'a theoretical model' and 'just a collection of observations'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by athenian200 View Post
    People like it because it's less technical and more of a mystical archetype system. It can sort of be used to give a vague indication of personality, but it's not as clear or confining as a Socionics type. It's also much easier to learn in the first place if you're not so analytical.

    In fact, I would say that the systems lie on a spectrum:

    Enneagram ---------- MBTI ---------- Socionics

    Mystical ----------------------------- Practical
    Emotional-----------------------------Analytical
    Holistic ------------------------------ Precise
    Archetypal ---------------------------Systematized
    Vague -------------------------------Specific
    Yeah, I agree.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    Socionics is much more about relationships.
    You are taking this from point of view what's prominent and what is often discussed and what is within what you know about socionics. It's not all there is about socionics, or all that there can be. It's just easier to find that type of information from the material avaible about enneagram.
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    In fact, I would say that the systems lie on a spectrum:

    Enneagram ---------- MBTI ---------- Socionics

    Mystical ----------------------------- Practical
    Emotional-----------------------------Analytical
    Holistic ------------------------------ Precise
    Archetypal ---------------------------Systematized
    Vague -------------------------------Specific
    I don't see any of this sorry.

    It's all vague and generalized clap-trap.

    But getting detailed, specific information from people online is a safety risk. People only see and know what you show them, what is observable evidence. Both theories are nosy busybodies who try to pry where they don't belong. Thinking that we can internally pry into something without actual substance. That is impossible, nobody is a mind reader- they just think they are.

    Also 'practical' vs 'mystical' is a useless dichotomy, because what does that even mean?

    (I don't mean to be all super challenging and difficult, but please just listen to what I'm saying.)

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    enneagram is like viagra and enzyte all in one

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I don't see any of this sorry.

    It's all vague and generalized clap-trap.

    But getting detailed, specific information from people online is a safety risk. People only see and know what you show them, what is observable evidence. Both theories are nosy busybodies who try to pry where they don't belong. Thinking that we can internally pry into something without actual substance. That is impossible, nobody is a mind reader- they just think they are.

    Also 'practical' vs 'mystical' is a useless dichotomy, because what does that even mean?

    (I don't mean to be all super challenging and difficult, but please just listen to what I'm saying.)
    The premise in the above comparison is that you accept all three systems as valid.

    If you see them as vague, general, and insubstantial... then that's all they are. I was trying to describe how they look to the people who believe in them, not what they look like to people who don't.

    That being said... sometimes I do think it's all made up, subjective, and doesn't work the way it should. That is a valid perspective. But if you have that perspective, you shouldn't care how the systems are defined, because you shouldn't use them.

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    But if you have that perspective, you shouldn't care how the systems are defined, because you shouldn't use them.
    I use them if I can also see how they work in objective, physical reality. So actually you're wrong. I'm trying to deplete as many 'perspectives' as possible, because all perceptions are true and valid because they all make up the whole. But as soon as something doesn't quite smell right I say 'wait a minute here' because it's like Pure Ego/The First Evil talking to you, there is no substance to reflect the truth of their voice and the ideals they're trying to say. It's just a voice. There's no hand or heart or spirit, just mind.

    I personally feel like an idiot if I go out on a hunch or talk about people I don't REALLY know that well and try to apply this stuff to it. And my inner circle is unfortunately small. So yeah. I just think this whole thing is telling me that I need to live more life and have more real experience under my belt, despite my high intelligence.

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    If a person doesn't see how enneagram is non-science and socionics is science, it says something about that person.

    Enneagram is the same sort of typology as for example dividing people into 'happy', 'sad' and 'angry'. Just a collection of observations without explaning the underlying reasons.

    But socionics gets mixed up with a lot of different typologies, like the Oldham styles etc. Never understood that either.

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    I agree athenian. It is vague. Too vague.

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    Neither Socionics or enneagram are science in any way, shape, or form.

    Enneagram does not type people based on "happy" and "sad".

    More like, "identity searching" "fear of lack of control" "Fear of intrusion" etc.

    Those things are pretty legit and major aspects of psyche, and are also much more easily observable.

    As of now Enneagram trumps socionics, sorry.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    Neither Socionics or enneagram are science in any way, shape, or form.
    I'm curious to your definition of (social) science.

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    Socionics has little in the way of empirical verification, excepting the folk variety.

    There has been little connection to actual biological processes.

    Also, social sciences are considered the end of the spectrum in terms of reliable/exacting fields of study and Socionics is at the fringe of social sciences.

    One day it might have scientific verification with connections to neuro-science and experimentation, but I have not encountered any so far.

    Supposedly the Russians have performed such studies, however I cannot assume validity by hear-say alone.



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    I think the term "proto-science" applies to both typologies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    One day it might have scientific verification with connections to neuro-science and experimentation, but I have not encountered any so far.
    But would you expect that enneagram will produce a similar scientific verification?

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    i have not encountered enneagram material like that, but i do believe the fixation concept is a valid one.

    Yes I think enneagram could one day be verified.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    I don't have time for a long explanation just now, but I could talk about this in length IF you are interested....
    I think we would just waste more of our time with that. Maybe in some other circumstances. What I mean is that your thoughts wouldn't be uninteresting, but the outcome of what would happen, if you did that, would be waste of time now.

    However, I just wanted to say that your logic is flawed. Whatever made you assume that conscious + unconscious = model A??
    It has already been explained by socionics. It's not my logic. They aren't exactly the same as how Freud defines them, but Freuds speculations probably weren't even correct in the first place.

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    In my opinion EGO (also the unconscious parts) = model A. You are strong at Ni, Ne, Ti, Te in your Ego. You are weak at the other functions. Because you are weak at Fe, you might get Ego insecurities when it comes to that function. But why would that mean that you necessarily are unconsciously very strong at Fe, and even stronger at Fe than Ni?
    Conscious part of the mind ~ Jung's typology.

    You can consciously address your super-ego functions. However you can't fully address the id-functions. For example in case Se-DS, you don't know what's stopping you from doing something like a Se-ego would do. You simply can't bring it in your conscious mind and process it, and then just act accordingly. If it was in your ego, it would be just as easy as bying pasta instead of potatoes, then it would be just matter of what you decide. If you can't verbalize what the problem is, it's not in your conscious mind.

    The unconscious has, ime, functions in a way too, but not only your weak and unvalued functions. It contains all functions, just like your Ego. Like your Ego is a (mostly) conscious archetype, you have more, probably even bigger unconscious archetypes, and they can all have "different" types.
    You just seem to connect the unconcious part of mind, with some mystic grandiose thing. It's not. Conscious mind is just what you consciously think. If we speak of archetypes, Jung's Self-archetype = what's explained by Model A.

    In addition there is the more spiritual side, and ime, it's not typeable, or rather, it contains all types.
    Spritual side is thousands years old bullshit, with no relevance to reality. It's nothing more than filling factual holes with fantasy, although entertaining and a position where I have began too, but more I have learned and the better my understanding has become, the more obvious my conclusion has come.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    To live in essence, each type must, instead of following their vice, go the OPPOSITE way of what they instinctually would do. To feel connected (live in essence= realize), E4s must let go of envy (vice) and learn to see all people as equally worthy (give up basic desire and fear).
    Is there a type or a person in the world, that letting go of envy wouldn't help?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    No. And?
    So that's just falling for Barnum effect. These basic advises are helpful for one enneagram type, because they would be helpful for everyone, so it doesn't tell why enneagram in itself is more helpful. You could just read list of advices like that without connecting them to types or typology.
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    I was going to quote a bunch of crap, but, basically, just think about all that stuff Jake said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tom View Post
    I was going to quote a bunch of crap, but, basically, just think about all that stuff Jake said.
    who's jake?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    Enneagram seems to exclusively determine behavior. Any socionics type can be any enneagram type, so that adds another subtype basically. An enneagram type can tell you a lot about how someone will be behavior wise. Look at it this way, socionics is the tool, enneagram is how the tool is used. I think the enneagram is a perfectly fine system.

    This is a nice and simple enneagram site- www.9types.com
    Actually I think ennegaram is about motivation and socionics more about behavior.
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    Here's a short summary of the part of the Enneagram theory I like and find more helpful than Socionics :

    E4s

    - Essence (what this type dream of) : connection
    - Vice (how we act before living in the essence): Envy
    - Fixation (triggered by the vice (since it doesn't lead to essence)) : Melancholy
    - Basic Desire - specialness
    - Basic Fear - ordinariness
    - Virtue - Kindness

    Does it sound familiar?
    That's helpful for all nerdy introverts in school who actually did their homework.

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    I like how enneagram theory empiricizes centers for traits instead of traits themselves...ie head center as opposed to say intuition or perceiving.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MellowMarcello View Post
    I like how enneagram theory empiricizes centers for traits instead of traits themselves...ie head center as opposed to say intuition or perceiving.
    well, not really. the traits really are mostly based on superficialities since everyone is 5w6 sp/sx at heart, as you know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuturututu View Post
    Then we all agree that Jung was 5w6 sp/sx.
    i think of jung as unequivocally 5w4, but i'd buy that, more or less. it's better than the typewatch version, anyway.

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    So, you'll claim that I'm a E2 and with this supposedly I am ever loving and help because I want love and appreciation or acknowledgement in return...I'm setting out on explaining why I think E is BS.

    Here we go.

    So, I'm in a relationship with someone I find intelligent, well traveled, worldly, interested in conversing on all sorts of topics with me, has wide and verried interests in things, can enjoy various topics/interests with me, comes from a good family and I can't wait to go to New York with him so I can enjoy good food with him. I'm in no sense or way interested in helping him. The only love I want to give and receive is in the form of support. "Honey, I want to go be a rocket scientist"...."please do, does this mean we can go to space?" companionship is what I want. Why would you not want to go to space with someone you love? Interesting point. Well, if you can tell me you've been in love and not thought of that one and the joys of shared conversation with them then I can suppose you'd go to the moon and enjoy your company by yourself.

    Anyway, my point is that we've been together for months now and neither one of us wants to get or do something for the other person because we want LOVE and appreciation as this whole E type thing claims. In fact, I do things for people who I feel need help BECAUSE they ask for it. Because they make it a point to say and state their current situation at nausea until it's like "ok, I'll do this so that you can finally talk about something else." So, how does this whole thing factor into E2 claims that we do it to receive appreciation? It makes no sense to me as now I'm with someone who is a wonderful person and who doesn't ask or stress anything of me except.."walk here, I'm only two blocks away..." and me saying "I can't...I have to do laundry"
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    You see Enneagram as a stereotypical model like Socionics, it is not that way. It's more about the vice and virtue of each type, the rest is totally variable according to individual.

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    I don't see how anything you typed has anything to do with enneagram at all. "I'm nice because I'm nice not because I'm a 2"? Is that the tl;dr for that?

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    Enneagram has levels of mental health - 9 levels inside each of the 9 types. If you are a 2, you might not be a really bad (mentally unhealthy) 2. You see, enneagram is about self-development. You study enneagram to get better at something, so it puts you on a scale as to how neurotic you are.

    A low level enneagram 3 is a psychopathic killer, like the Joker from batman. You see, a run of the mill enneagram 3, like our own @William is not the Joker. Although, he is but a little better behaved :-) but better behaved still none the less. Maybe he used enneagram to pull himself out of his psychopathic rage.
     
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