I hear that! I know almost no ENFp guys, except those here on the forum... In high school I was friends with one ENFp guy, (I went to a small high school,) but we had a falling out.
I know quite a few ENFp girls and generally we get along very well... They're usually hilarious, and I appreciate their good intentions... I even dated one last year--but only for a month, b/c it was a catastrophe... We went on vacation together, and then each cancelled plans on each other about ten times and then broke up haha