Do ISFjs prefer to date "bad boys"?

[Ezra]

ISFjs like bad boys. This is true.

The question is: why?

What bullshit. They're aggressors. LIEs like bad girls.

[FDG]

What bullshit. They're aggressors. LIEs like bad girls.

Well I hope you're joking too. Anyway, I agree completely with ifmd

You will find ISFjs to be somewhat aggressive when they dislike a person's behavior and they do not have an attachment-relationship with the person. You will not find them to be aggressive in their close interpersonal relations for a very obvious reason: you do not have a relationship if you quarrel, bitch and pester all the time - the opposite.

[Dioklecian]

Well I hope you're joking too. Anyway, I agree completely with ifmd

You will find ISFjs to be somewhat aggressive when they dislike a person's behavior and they do not have an attachment-relationship with the person. You will not find them to be aggressive in their close interpersonal relations for a very obvious reason: you do not have a relationship if you quarrel, bitch and pester all the time - the opposite.

Depends on the ISFJ, many bitch in order to get their needs met. Have you ever tried to get something from an ENTJ? It's almost impossible.

[FDG]

Depends on the ISFJ, many bitch in order to get their needs met. Have you ever tried to get something from an ENTJ? It's almost impossible.

Yeah, I've gotten many things from myself

[Armitage]

Depends on the ISFJ, many bitch in order to get their needs met. Have you ever tried to get something from an ENTJ? It's almost impossible.

As a LIE myself I beg to differ, if my friends and family need something, I'm happy to help them, you just have to count as a friend first.

[Fluffy Princess Unicorn]

As a LIE myself I beg to differ, if my friends and family need something, I'm happy to help them, you just have to count as a friend first.

Lol I laughed at this thread, it was really stupid. Thanks for resurrecting it from the grave.

[Dioklecian]

What bullshit. They're aggressors. LIEs like bad girls.

LIEs don't like bad girls, they like girls that will put up with them. They love to take pure innocent ISFJs and ahem educate tem.

[FDG]

LIEs don't like bad girls, they like girls that will put up with them. They love to take pure innocent ISFJs and ahem educate tem.

Which is the logical diametrical opposite of what you said above, given that a pure and innocent girl cannot be bad.

[Creepy-bg]

Which is the logical diametrical opposite of what you said above, given that a pure and innocent girl cannot be bad.

you want to get them when they're all pure and innocent and then turn them bad. That's where it's at!

[FDG]

you want to get them when they're all pure and innocent and then turn them bad. That's where it's at!

If that's the case...I would actually see nothing wrong with that

[Fluffy Princess Unicorn]

@Shazaam Well, you're not wrong in the sense that it's probably NTR.

LIEs don't like bad girls, they like girls that will put up with them. They love to take pure innocent ISFJs and ahem educate tem.

This dude was just mixing up LIE with ASS types. Based on this quoted part alone, it already sounds probable that he fits somewhere in the dark triad.

[Dioklecian]

While most of this thread was nonsense from the recesses of Dio's head, I do think - after reading the relevant publications in the Articles section - that the balance of power in romantic relationships is more balanced in Gamma. (in comparison to Beta - where "Victim/Agressor" seems described as manifesting more stereotypically.)

And anecdotally, I would say ISFj's seem to expect someone sturdier than a Beta NF is described typically. Which interestingly enough is consistent with what I've noted earlier about Si POLR being less inert in "Jack London" than in "Hamlet".

That's not to say I think ISFj's like "bad boys" but perhaps "they don't like wimps" has some truth. And although it's possible I'm confusing some INFj's for ISFj's - I wouldn't describe ISFj's as "bad girls". Anecdotally and in description, I think you'll find that character of person better fitting Beta ST. (although there could be some overlap in the sensing subtypes.)

Interestingly enough this would also be consistent with FDG's observations that ISFj's aren't quite as confrontational as other users describe.

You have the mental capacity of a 5 year old.

[implied]

You have the mental capacity of a 5 year old.

i'm sure he's very hurt and intends on re-examining his knowledge of socionics immediately.

[Creepy-Cyclops]

i'm sure he's very hurt and intends on re-examining his knowledge of socionics immediately.

One day, I might be mature enough to class myself as 5