i thought they were a bit of the opposite.Originally Posted by Joy
i thought they were a bit of the opposite.
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Whose Opposite?
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If you look long enough into the void, the void begins to look back through you.
Are they the givers or the receivers, in terms of masochism
IT SEEMS THAT THEY ARE LOOKING TO GET HURT/MISTREATED OR SOME DERIVATIVE THEREOF. I SUPPOSE THEY ARE NOT OPPOSED TO GIVING AS WELL AS RECEIVING. BUT THEY SEEM TO GET TURNED ON BY LISTREATMENT, PAIN, HUMILIATION.
NOT SURE HOW IT WORKS EXACTLY.
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Do you think ISFj's can or like to be martyrs? So in a sort of way, its like putting up with things in a 'martyr' like way ?
THAT'S MORE THE esfj STYLE I THINK. ISFJs SEEM TO 'LIKE IT ROUGH' I WOULD SAY.
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And what exactly is this conclusion based on? Because the ISFjs I know are quite the opposite.
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin
Observation mainly. Today basically and over the years.
whats' your experience?
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Actually, I was wondering if ISFjs sometimes can seem masochistic in that they become overly dutiful and take everything upon themselves. Then if others don't appreciate this, and take it for granted, it becomes somewhat sad.
Someone who I know who I think is ISFj said "I'll go around the world and back for you, I'll do anything for you, if you ask me nicely." This same person would probably do that anyway for people she's loyal to even if they didn't ask her nicely. When she describes her family situation, I get the feeling she secretly feels rather under appreciated, or simply is rather under appreciated.
I wonder if I have her type wrong.Maybe this is being confused with the Myersian ISFJ (which she incidentally tests as).
And of course most people would be willing to do just about anything for someone they're strongly devoted to... it was the "if you ask me nicely" part that seemed particularly striking to me.
she sounds more ISFP.
what I have in mind is the type of girl that goes to have an orgy, or the one who dates a gangster, the trophy wife, that sort of ting.
Last edited by Dioklecian; 03-12-2008 at 10:06 PM.
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