Oh christ almighty...XcaliburGirl, LK is not an INTj so he does not know what it is like to be an INTj, and has never experienced an INTj-ESFj relationship firsthand. I have, several times, and LK's observations go against all of my first hand experience.Originally Posted by XcaliburGirl
Playing around like little kids with my first ESFj girlfriend was a major attraction to her, and well, it was really fun. She mentioned to me that she thought it would be romantic to go to the beach, so I took her there, and the look in her eyes I knew she was happy. It was dark, slightly rainy, and dreary, but we played around goofing around on the beach for a while. _Close_ INTjs and ESFjs typically have a very playful nature to them, at least at the infatuation stage. Another ESFj I've been friends with for a little over a month, we had a deep conversation about love and being in love, and the next day we flirted around throwing things at each other and laughing.
(there is nothing like first hand experience)