The Main Diff between Ps & Js

[cracka]

And then there are the J/P couples (like me and lots of others I know) where they're on vacation and the J will say "let's have a plan for the day" and the P rolls their eyes and says "can't we just explore and see what happens?" So the compromise is: they plan one or two things that they know they want to do. The rest of the time is go with the flow.

I imagine I hang out with a bunch of P people... this is how 90% of things I do tend to happen. I'll always plan a part of the day and the rest of the day is just running around doing whatever the other person wants to do...etc.

[redbaron]

I imagine I hang out with a bunch of P people... this is how 90% of things I do tend to happen. I'll always plan a part of the day and the rest of the day is just running around doing whatever the other person wants to do...etc.

Yea and actually my ESE husband is pretty flexible when it comes to this kind of thing. He's more willing than some to take a wait and see approach. He doesn't bug me about not planning every minute of every day. We get along well when traveling.