Quote Originally Posted by enfpgirl View Post
Thank you for this posting. I agree that we shouldn't use the dual theory to wait for someone to address our weaknesses, as tempting as that may be. The more complete we are so individuals, including spiritually (I practice zen meditation), the happier we will be on our own and better able to attract a great partner, regardless of what type they are.
I don't know how you found this old thread, but thanks for commenting. I came to the same conclusion as yours and IcEPiCk's. I'm not puting too much stock into this whole 'duality' thing.