Quote Originally Posted by Nicky
The first several months my ISTp husband and I were married I kept trying to get him to express emotion all the time. He never did but I learned how to see his emotion in what he does. He goes out in the cold and takes my car to fill it with gas because he knows I hate that. That kind of thing. It's about seeing the feelings in other ways than being told. And while someone who is very verbally expressive with emotion is a nice ego boost for a while, it can get a bit too much for me after a relationship has been going for a while.

We have a very conflict-free marriage, and I like that. I feel comfortable talking to him about *anything* and I've never been like that with anyone - not even family.
You and an INFj have said something similar here, and I am just itching to combine the two thoughts, print them out, and put them on my wall... Just for the heck of it.