In the relations of benefit module found on Sergei Genins site, the beneficiary seems to attempt to take advantage of the Benefactor. I would gather that the beneficiary in the module holds the Benefactor in contempt.

Notworthy examples being Iago / Othello or Bill / Hilary Clinton.

How do you reconcile this with the assertion that the beneficiary is supposed to love the benefactor deeply and experiences a painful "one-way" love so to speak?

I wrote to Sergie Genin about this before he closed down his Q & A section ...but did not get my question fully answered in light of the descrepancy between the module and his explanation.

Have you read anything on reverse order? If so ... can you explain it?