That they are. Actually I think ethical polr in general is the most easy since it creates obvious interpersonal tension.
I actually empathise with this polr, I imagine it's painful to realise you're fucking your relationships up and not understand why people are reacting negatively to you, especially since fe is so important. I think fi polr types can go waay out of their way to preserve relationships with people that want in their lives.
They probably just see it as "people hate for no reason sometimes, and I just have to deal with that fact of life any way I can".