P.S. I WOULDN'T ask her if she has a boyfriend: it's too obvious and the answer could be embarrassing to both of you. Just boldly ask her, this will leave her space to be creative herself and come up with an elegant 'no' in case she doesn't want to have a drink. However, in that case, also be prepared for the possibility that she will accept the invitation, even though she has a boy friend.
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
I'd say she was probably just doing her job, and seemingly doing it quite well. But, in the case that she would be interested in you, your best bet is to just call up there, ask for (insert chick's name here), and then tell her she was very helpful to you and that you'd like to buy her a cup of coffee or dinner to show your appreciation.
While I'd normally say to go there yourself and ask her out in person, this can easily be a situation where she was just doing her job and you may not want to put either of you in the awkward situation that could come up if you went there instead of calling. At least on the phone she'll be able to just say no and that she is with someone or just not interested without worrying about hurting your feelings. It's a lot easier to say "not interested" when you don't have to look the person in the eye.
Then again, think positively and maybe she'll say she'd really like that and give you her number. Which will leave you and her bothall day.
Oh, and with Valentines day coming up quickly your chances go up about 70% if she doesn't have a b/f that she'll say yes...lol
HAhaha...Originally Posted by cracka
Oh, and with Valentines day coming up quickly your chances go up about 70% if she doesn't have a b/f that she'll say yes...lol
Anyways, I guess I should do some phone calls. But wait... I don't know her name. Damn!
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
hmm, did you buy anything from her yesterday, if so it may be on a reciept or something... if not... Doh! #1 rule in meeting new women... NEVER forget their name...lolHAhaha...
Anyways, I guess I should do some phone calls. But wait... I don't know her name. Damn!
Stupid arse, forgot to ask her name! I can't believe this, lol. Nope I didn't buy anything.... Let me see...I am skimming through the papers she gave me... there's only the company phone number...hmm, did you buy anything from her yesterday, if so it may be on a reciept or something... if not... Doh! #1 rule in meeting new women... NEVER forget their name...lol
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I guess I 'm left with having to go there, hah? In that case, how do I approach her? If a keep doing car-talk it would be unfair and pointless, wouldn't it? I could go ahead and ask her out or something, but I don't think I have the guts and I 'd feel to embarrassed.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
A car salesperson that didn't give her business card herself, just to make sure you get back to her in case you decide to come back and cash the sales bonus?? You know what this means??
Or is my imagination running wild here??
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
Winterpark, I thought you were a girl?
And why would you think that?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I thought I distinctly remembered expat refering to you as a 'she'. Strange. Oh well, sorry.And why would you think that?
oh gawd these situtions have happened to all of us. Those sales people can be so damn charming and you just cant seperate them doing their job and liking you. Happens to me with See's. They get me every time.
Anyway trust you're instincts and give it a go. The perfect advice has already been given i think.
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
No problemo. Youre not the first, lol. People have thought I am a girl, or a black guy... I don't care, i just find it funny sometimes cause I have no clue where it comes from.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
maybe this helps.
it's always appreciated to be open and honest, and you don't make a fool out of yourself if you show your well meant motives.
Tell her:
"I would like to be honest to you, I liked the conversation and I think it would be nice if we could talk again sometime, if that is possible. If not then ofcourse no problem."
Try to get her phonenumber.
ps: in a book I read, this approach gives a 50% score with any single stranger you meet.
That squirrel is shitfaced..
Winterpark. Just stroll in all confident like. Wink at her, put your portable cd player on a car and crank this song, while pointing and dancing seductively
Anyway ur best bet isn't to work it up in your mind, try to make is as casual as u can
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
I don't usually give much attention to motives. Who cares about my motives anyways, not even me. Actions and results/consequences are more important to me.
(Anyway, thanks for the tip.)
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Just go for it. If she blows you off you'll never see her again anyway.
Go for it dude. If she's not interested it ain't the end of the world. Just means she's frigid haha
Well guys, I went there today. She was there, but I didn't get the chance to talk to her, unfortunately.She was with a customer when I entered. She saw me but didn't react in any way. There was this stupid sales guy I came across instead and got stuck with him the whole time. I stayed there for about an hour, looking at the cars and talking to the guy, waiting to get the chance to talk to the girl, but I didn't. We made a short eye contact a couple of times. I wanted to at least say hello or something but I didn't find the right moment (and I didn't feel like waving my hand to greet her or do some ridiculous acrobation
). What I realized was that she 's (probably) the same with everyone and she was just doing her job. I mean she spent as much if not more time with her current customer as she did with me the other day... (they were still talking when I quit)
I don't think she's interested, I don't think she even remembers me, my friend thinks she 's probably married, but I think I 'll give it another try because, I AM interested, I do remember her and I hope she's not married.
What do you think?
by the way, I still don't know her name, and I don't see how I could show up there again without being ready to actually buy a car.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
This seems like a really good suggestion!I'd say she was probably just doing her job, and seemingly doing it quite well. But, in the case that she would be interested in you, your best bet is to just call up there, ask for (insert chick's name here), and then tell her she was very helpful to you and that you'd like to buy her a cup of coffee or dinner to show your appreciation.
While I'd normally say to go there yourself and ask her out in person, this can easily be a situation where she was just doing her job and you may not want to put either of you in the awkward situation that could come up if you went there instead of calling. At least on the phone she'll be able to just say no and that she is with someone or just not interested without worrying about hurting your feelings. It's a lot easier to say "not interested" when you don't have to look the person in the eye.
Then again, think positively and maybe she'll say she'd really like that and give you her number. Which will leave you and her both
, LIE, ENTj logical subtype, 8w9 sx/sp
Listen to this guy. He knows what he's talkin bout.I'd say she was probably just doing her job, and seemingly doing it quite well. But, in the case that she would be interested in you, your best bet is to just call up there, ask for (insert chick's name here), and then tell her she was very helpful to you and that you'd like to buy her a cup of coffee or dinner to show your appreciation.
Then again, think positively and maybe she'll say she'd really like that and give you her number. Which will leave you and her both
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend
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