A question.... Sometimes, I feel like I get hurt too easily by my intj. I think part of this is because he is my opposite and thinks and acts differently than I, and another part of it is because I have feelings for him, so it makes it twice as hard for me when he is abrasive. I try not to take it so personal, but I can't help but be upset when he says something rude... like "Leave me the F_____ alone." I guess it's because on some days we get along well, and others he'll completely ignore me and I really don't understand that. Or possibly it could be because I feel such a desire to talk to him and be close to him, and he doesn't. I was just wondering if any other ESFj's or any other types feel that way?