Did you pull the idea of Socionics from thin air, did you spring it on her all at once? Or did you lead up to it, gradually, and give her time to process the information? It seems reasonable to be distrustful of something you've never heard of before. Why should she believe you just because you're telling her? Do you think there's any possibility of you coming off as arrogant to her? That would be a real turn off.
You make it sound like it's a bad thing that she's not ready to believe your (to her) perhaps far-out theory. Like she's being unreasonable or "hiding" something. I mean,
"details of their personality into the open?" Not cool man. Who are you to judge her like that? I mean, are you qualified to analyze her? Are you a very good, trusted friend, or just an aquaintance?
Why are you explaining Socionics to her, anyway? Does she
want to know about it? Did she
express an interest in it? If so, why not just write down some info websites and give them to her to research on her
own, if she wants. Otherwise, just leave it. Don't force it down her throat. No one likes that. It's not type related.
I'm not saying you're doing any of this, but without details it's hard to tell. You're not really acknowledging the whole situation or her point of view. Maybe
"flesh out" your story with a bit more
evidence? :wink: