That's right. This is a brag thread. Talk about all the things you enjoy/admire/like/respect about ESFps here. Anecdotes are welcome, as well as what you admire/enjoy/like/respect about the type in general. Ready? Set. GO!
That's right. This is a brag thread. Talk about all the things you enjoy/admire/like/respect about ESFps here. Anecdotes are welcome, as well as what you admire/enjoy/like/respect about the type in general. Ready? Set. GO!
hey you guys don't have to hold back or anything... lol
ESFp-Fi sub
6w7 sx/so/sp
ESFps are fun, energetic, adventurous, courageous, curious, and they are the type I most easily open up to.
Life with an ESFp is exciting, fun, unpredictable, and rewarding.
Yay ESFps!
PS: unpredictable is a GOOD thing!
Last edited by Kim; 01-18-2008 at 11:16 PM. Reason: added something
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin
They aren't like other Gammas, they're usually friendly and playful. It's pretty much like they are an advertisement which seems to say "JOIN GAMMAS" or such.
They believe in themselves and go the distance.
They're also good archetypal heroes. The hero who "believes in himself" etc...
I'll state an example why SEEs are amazing.
I have a close friend whom I've typed as SEE.
She is great at handling people. There was once, this guy in our project group, was spreading lies about our group. When she heard about it, she immediately confronted him in front of our classmates, catching him in his own lies. He apologized in the end.
What was great was the way she handled it.
SEEs, probably because of Se dominance are just amazing at this, which is something to be appreciated IMO.
INTp
sx/sp
Good friends, albeit from a distance sometimes.
Can be very sexual.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Ridiculously charismatic and always, ALWAYS fun and exciting to be around.
ISFp <3
My best friend is an ESFp.
She has a huge heart, knows how to make people laugh, and is one of the most fun people I know.
I don't really hate SEE's. They're usually friendly, but I still don't understand why they're so hostile with LII's. Us LII's are friendly people, you know, just like you.
SEE's aren't like other Gammas. You know, Gammas are hostile and distant. SEE's like to play escort chicks/dudes in order to make the Gamma Quadra appear superficially cool. But you're definitely not as skilled as ESE's to make this role. ESE's are cooler than you.
Besides, why the fuck are you attracted by ILI's ? They're a whole bunch of unsociable nerds who don't have any respect or empathy for you ! It's pretty much like SLE's are more empathetic than them. SLE's are Gandhi as compared to them.
(I didn't invent the fact that ILI's were so hostile. Talanov has done empirical research that proves that. And he's ILI)
SLE's are empathetic, machintruc is just pathetic
I'm yet to meet a SEE in real life that I've had trouble getting along with. I can't really put it into words what I like about them, but.. I dunno, aside from the obvious I'm not really sure what else I can say about them. I dunno.. perhaps one day I'll finally be able to verbalise what it is I like about them. Who knows, I might even stop saying "I dunno.." one day. I dunno..
ILI (Indescribable Lovemaking Inc.)
5w4 so/sx
"IP temperament! Because today's concerns are tomorrow's indifferences!"
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Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
machintruc- go eat shit and die. thanks.
ESFp-Fi sub
6w7 sx/so/sp
it's better than being LII and getting nothing at all.
I think people exagerate how much SEE sleeps around. in gamma quadra, it is ESI & LIE who really get around. SEE is more of a constant flirt & tease ... they are not sex craved so much... not one to tie themselves to people too closely. Really, I think Beta are the biggest whores. Delta are whores too, but a little more loyal. Alpha is of course the sexually repressed quadra. I have known 3 LIIs personally... one was a close friend of mine who lost his virginity at age 21 to his LIE girlfriend.. second girlfriend. I saw him go into a slight rage after being prodded about his sex life by an IEE. Another I met through an ESI I was dating. He was stalking my girlfriend.. and has been stalking her for 11 years, has not had a girlfriend since he was 16 (which was her).. it is pathetic. The other is an old man who gives off sexually repressed vibes. He won't look you in the eye, ... he's just odd. Anyway, there you have it: LII
Last edited by crazedrat; 03-31-2008 at 06:45 AM.
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
every word is a generalization, 1.
2, yes they are... it is the emotional stability which is disturbed. this balances it out
3... get out of our quadra you damn birdy alphas
ever heard of Ni polr? what is it better to be: analytically handicapped, or incapable of handling the simplest tasks effectively.. And which is more stupid? ESE is a time-retard. They are retarded through time. I knew an ESE who would consistently underestimate how long it would take her to drive somewhere by 300%. Consistently. One time I was late for work by 40 minutes, because the ESE thought it would take 20 minutes to drive to the mall and back (she left 25 minutes before I had to go to work) .... she didn't take into account parking, walking in and out of the mall, getting out of the parking lot, possible traffic complications, the time it took her to get in and out of the damn car, ...... Their stupidity doesn't occur in an instant. It will build up and over time become a monumentally stupid/retarded blunder. Their stupidity matters... it effects how things unfold in the world. I tried to explain to her time is something you can't "wish real hard to change or slow down" ... It is kind of like she thinks time will be what she wishes it will be. So stupid... SEEs stupidity just means they don't bug the shit out of you with elaborately justified opinions. It keeps them open minded. By being stupid in this one way, they remain smart.
In closing: go fuck yourself
Last edited by crazedrat; 03-31-2008 at 07:12 AM.
The more time i spend here, the more I wonder if I AM ILI.
This conflict is boring. I feel no need to defend SEE. Or ILI. SEE and ILI do not need to be defended. You Alphas are goofy, let's be friends.
And this, too, shall pass away.
ILI
stick to this stupid ILI, do not break your own rules please...I am: INTp-Ni subtype
If you are: INTp-Te, ENTj, INFp-Fe, ENFj, INTj-Ne, ENTp-Ne, INFj-Ne, or any S other than: ISFj-Se, ESFp, ISTp-Te, ISTj-Ti, ESTp-Se, ISFp-Fe...
... then do not talk to me, do not read my posts; pretend we are not a part of the same universe.
Beta extrovert from NF club.
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
You guys... and I mean all of you...
SHUT UP.
Just cut it. Deal? Separate corners, boys and girls.
And this, too, shall pass away.
ILI
"Mom! Dad! Could you please stop yelling at each other?! You're tearing this family apart."
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
You would be surprised how adept at Ti even the average SEE can have. Just because the SEE does not value Ti does not mean that they cannot somehow use it when appropriate. Ti PoLR =! Ti Stupid.
An EIE insults SEEs, so you "defend their honor" by insulting ESEs?
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
when someone sounds stupid, two things are happening.
1: the talking person is not expressing themselves fully, in my case because I do not feel like it
2: the listening person is not recognizing the context of the other persons words.
rarely is it just like... "the person is plain stupid. their mind doesn't make sense. their operating system is flawed, it should be crashing.... oh god!" ..etc.
It is a matter of point of view.
For example, from my point of view, you sound fucking stupid because you said nothing other then "you realize you sound stupid" ... which doesn't give me any idea of how you didn't get what I said or what I need to explain further.
I will explain what I said earlier in further detail to give you the opportunity to either correct yourself or shut the fuck up.
1: "every word is a generalization" - this means words without a context in mind do not form a coherent impression of reality, and for a sentance to have coherence it must be interpreted in light of a specific context you have in mind. So when you are "overgeneralizing", it matters little in light of the context which is being discussed. For example, if I say "LII never gets layed"... this puts you thinking into the circumstances of LII, of the act of getting layed... It is meant to guide and direct your thoughts toward what is real and what is trying to be reached: the specific circumstance.. which exists in imagination, and is contingent on more then words can express. Like if I look at a car and I say "that is a car".. unless you saw the same car, you know very little about the situation I am describing other then a car existed; and even then, what exactly qualifies as a car isn't clear. Or if I am looking at a waterfall and I say "the water never stops", this isn't true.. it will stop eventually, but at this specific circumstance it is "never stopping" ... I do not see it as being extremely important that I write a longer sentence to develop a more specific linguistic circumstance: "LII tends to get layed less then the other personality types".. the circumstance which the sentance triggers is what really matters. .. all that language should do, is guide you into thinking of a specific circumstance. Long sentances like what you are suggesting (i.e. INTj sentences) are language for its own sake, and accomplish nothing more then the previously more generalized statement accomplished.. they both guide your mind into the circumstance, and that is all that matters. Once thinking inside the circumstance, things are understood as they are conceived
2: "it is the emotional balance which is disturbed, and corrected" .. This is obviously a true statement, and I would like you to show me how it is so stupid. A person attacks me, I attack them back. my attack serves as a way of making me feel better. You said "this accomplishes nothing" .... I said it makes me feel better, which qualifies as something.
3: "get out of our quadra, you birdy alphas" this statement needs little qualification. Alphas are annoying, birds are annoying, and I want you to go away
....fuck you
oh yeah, err... are you a part of my universe? Ti or Ne ? ..
Last edited by crazedrat; 03-31-2008 at 11:44 PM.
You're funny, but I do not think that you mean to be. I am not sure how seriously I will be able to take what you say in the future. Why can't you be more like liveandletlive or ScarlettLux in this thread and go straight for the jugular (i.e. the individual of grievance and not the type)?
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
Hey Crazedrat- I fit in to your list of types you will talk to (ISFp-Fe)
shut the fuck up!
No, I didn't mean that, I just felt like saying it to piss you off by saying something annoying from a person who is a type you wouldn't really expect that from. In a playful way, honest. OMG I'm so sorry. Here, have some applesauce. It will make you FEEL better. <3
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
Yes, I know, I'm a shithead.
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
it happens alot that i write out an elaborate post to an alpha after they've asked me to do it, then they say nothing about it. ...
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi