As far as Victims/Aggressors go, I can see how it works out. I don't really understand how the Careful/Infantile relationships work, possibly because I'm not either of them.

Normally I would be a Victim (maizemedley described it very well ). I appreciate (tactfully) aggressive people as friends/lovers/anything really. It takes the pressure off, in a way.

I do expect people to be aggressive to an extent, but if I can't get it (or if their aggression isn't "appropriate" for my tastes"), then I have no real problems being aggressive myself.

I can't imagine myself in a Careful role. I really don't think I could pull it off, although at times I can seem to take the Infantile role.