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D E M O N
I feel like the romance styles theory causes more confusion and stereotypes than producing any actual understanding or explanation.
I still like to use them, but they almost exist as a separate type system.
Agressor types sound very male bro type.
Victims sound like "shit testers".
Infantiles basically sound exactly as they're named.
Caregivers sound like a mommy or daddy type.
I think one person could be all of these in a relationship depending on the situation and mood.
There is some truth to this theory though I think it just needs to be modified by someone.
Ni types can seem victimish because they are in their head more than out of it but still value a Se "aggressor" to shake them out of their dreamy stupor.
Ne types can seem childish because of their precocious imaginative nature and value a Si "caregiver" to keep their feet on the ground.