OK, so I have read a fair bit about what should happen in an activity r'ship, but are there any first-hand accounts around?

I'm a female ENTP married to a male ESFJ, we met when I was 15, he was 17 and have been married around 13 months now, together nearly 7 years. Are we mental? How can we be better partners for each other? What are your personal experiences? What have you seen in the way of activity partners?

Also, what do you think he's like on a date?