Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush
Quote Originally Posted by tereg
Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush
What exactly do you mean by care-free?
(I'm inclined to think ENFp, but INFj is possible.)
What I mean by that is being able to do things without caring so much about what other people think about it. Unfortunately, some of the decisions I make are based on others' perception of the decision I would make.

I'll give you an example.

When I'm making an unprotected right turn from a red light or pulling out of a driveway and a car pulls up behind me. Instead of going when I feel safe to go, suddenly, I shrink that threshhold because I don't want that guy behind me to get pissed off and honk, maybe get out of his car and share a few words with me. So I sacrifice my own safety and necessity just so I can avoid making the other person pissed off.
Good, that's exactly what I was looking for. Basically weak Se, and probably unvalued. INFj seems perfectly suitable.
Geez, too easy. I've seen my ISFj gf being scared of other cars etc etc, and another ISFj I know doesn't even have a drivers license because she doesn't want to "risk" driving