No, it's not my job to explain it to you. Explaining something is pointless if you don't listen.Originally Posted by JTDW
This is a communication issue and if you want to fix it it's your responsibility. She said something that you did not completely understand and misinterpreted. To fix this, try asking her to repeat what she said, perhaps saying it in a different way. Then, repeat back to her in your own words what you got from what she said and ask her if that's what she meant. She'll either say "Yes," "No," or "Partly." If it's either of the latter two, repeat the process until you get a yes.
This technique may take longer than you like, but, trust me, it'll save you trouble further down the line and is a good habit to build.