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    IDK, I feel a little bit like it's propaganda for magical duality : /
    It may point out a common or likely flaw in the relationship, but, to me it's a lot of socionics extrapolation
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    IDK, I feel a little bit like it's propaganda for magical duality : /
    It may point out a common or likely flaw in the relationship, but, to me it's a lot of socionics extrapolation
    Not necessarily... There are things that would go smoother with a dual, but duality has its own issues too. The article lacks in "positive" things I've experienced with SLIs, but there's something to be said about the other things mentioned, like the unpredictability of the relationship. The closest one I had experienced significant ups and downs, and it always seemed like I had the shorter end of the stick when it came to emotional needs being met. This would be probably my only reservation in being in a relationship with an SLI.

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    SLIs are witty. and they like to dabble in literature and poetry. they appreciate double meanings and dislike direct Fe.

    I feeling like a typing idiot for mistaking one for SLE. wtf.

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    lol @ "SLIs gravitating towards emotionally manipulative IEEs."

    There aren't many things I hate more than emotional manipulation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Parkster View Post
    lol @ "SLIs gravitating towards emotionally manipulative IEEs."

    There aren't many things I hate more than emotional manipulation.
    Yeah, what does that mean, anyway? When I think of "emotional manipulation," I think of someone saying something like, "If you really loved me, you'd do xyz." I have never done anything like that...
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    i'm guessing it doesn't have the same sort of negative connotation in russian? like it's not neccessarily self-serving or something? idk.

    it's still a pretty crazy description in any case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pianosinger
    When I think of "emotional manipulation," I think of someone saying something like, "If you really loved me, you'd do xyz." I have never done anything like that...
    It can be pretty subtle stuff, though.

    Sometimes it's not so much what you say but what you don't, or it's what your eyes say, or it's the hints you drop in what you do or don't do, or it's...

    Sometimes it's so subtle they might not know it's happening, let alone you know you're even doing it.

    If not "emotionally", how do you usually manipulate your husband (or anyone, for that matter)?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CILi View Post
    If not "emotionally", how do you usually manipulate your husband (or anyone, for that matter)?
    The answer is... you don't.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    SLIs are witty. and they like to dabble in literature and poetry. they appreciate double meanings and dislike direct Fe.

    I feeling like a typing idiot for mistaking one for SLE. wtf.
    well i did that too, remember?
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