Quote Originally Posted by astralsilky
ENFps are supposedly great at motivating others, seeing the potential in them, etc, -- but what happens when the ENFp is the one with seriously low self-worth, is lazy and self-indulgent, and in need of motivation?!!

An ENFp I know has finally lost all confidence in himself, even hates himself now. It is so sad. His life has completely deteriorated to an extremely low level of functioning.

He needs to change his perspective. He has the opportunity to do things for people who are A LOT WORSE than he is.
He needs to get involved with living for other people instead of dwelling in his own "disappointment".

Find a cause or a charity or something he is concerned about. Stop focusing on yourself and think about what you can contribute. The more you focus on your own wants, the more disappointed you will be.