Quote Originally Posted by Khamelion
I hate having to make 10 phone calls a week just so people can think my love for them is validated. ( I have lots of people to keep in touch with)
how important is it TO YOU that you call these people and validate your love for them? do you see this as working more for your benefit or theirs? if they do not need validation, would you still be compelled to call them so often? i'm trying to get at your driving motivation for calling people, perhaps because i generally have absolutely none unless there's important information to share, a problem to solve, a wrong to make right, some necessary clarification, etc.