No, you're totally right harrybottom. Plus attractive people often do not need to work as hard for what they want and don't need to develop interpersonal skills or character to the same degree as most people. They end up depending on their looks, and then once those are gone they end up very bitter and disillusioned.

LOL, I tell my son that he's handsome a lot, but I'm careful to praise him for other things more than that. The important thing is to understand that while presentation is everything, there are things that matter a WHOLE lot more than what someone looks like.