Quote Originally Posted by eunice
In regards to the ESTj-INFj dual general description, what the INFj can provide can easily be done by any type imo. Everyone has the capability to be caring, understanding, emphatic, supportive, a good listener etc. All these don't require much skills to acquire, seriously.
Quote Originally Posted by Courage
INFjs are overlooking their best and strongest quality, but I suppose that is not unexpected.
I agree with Courage here. I personally couldn't be any of those things for an extended period of time. If I consider the people around me they generally fail almost as badly. Actually I'm not sure if all the INFjs can deliver those things day in day out. Anyways this seems to be a case where someone takes their leading function(s) for granted because they are such an automated function for them. I wonder if that is a PoLR hit for Fi-PoLR types. "It doesn't really require that much from you to be caring, understanding, emphatic and supportive. Seriously. How can you fail in these things? They are so easy to deliver.".