I ignore Fe in favor of Fi; this means, when I stand in front of another individual who is suffering, I care more about their emotions and am concerned about what the person is going through then caring about what I have to take care of.
An LSE, other then my cousin, that I know tells me he can feel my feelings coming on and he knows how uncomfortable I am about having to cry, so he doesn't mind rushing to suppress these emotions by kicking me in the shin or putting out the fire by asking me to leave the subject alone.
He knows that I care about others (Fi) and that my external emotions bother me as well as him. He doesn't like his coworker because he's Fe and because he only cares about himself and what he's working on for his own benefit.
I don't see how Fe should bother you? I see how other's Fe should bother you.
LSE are generally easily manipulated, even by Fi creative types, who demonstrate Fe...calling you to care when you shouldn't. I don't know. Maybe you should just care more about realizing the emotions of Fi types.
Unlike Golden (Fe valuer
) I feel like I have to maintain bonds of closeness and come to understand the person NO MATTER WHAT. But, usually it's easy to understand LSE.
Here's a good example of Fe at a party. So my 7 cousins and I went to a birthday-karaoke thing on Saturday. My 4 cousins and my sister are Fe valuers and my dual cousin, other cousin, and I are Fi valuers.
My sister (ESE) went from raising everyone's emotional spirit to party hardy, drink and enjoy, sing and have fun where she tried to include everyone in that motion to bringing up something my father said that effected her own emotions. She took her own personally effected feelings and started repeating the phrase "you don't understand how this makes me feel", crying. Well, all the Fe types started to sympathize with her. The Fi types empathized with her but couldn't extend sympathy because our argument is that the father is who he is and nothing can change him so there's no point for us (Fi) to get emotional and let our feelings be hurt by what dad said. This has been a repeated pattern with my sister and I; what hurts her that has to do with something my father says, which is often along the lines of "you're not going to be good enough in your career" (even though she's a strait A student -he expects her to become a doctor -ethic parents aspirations). She lets odd comments effect her feelings and I brush them off as that person's own problem because I can see how that person can't change their pattern of behavior; my dual cousin and the other see it the same way. We, Fi valuers, do want more love, as the Fe does, but we want it for more superficial reasons, I would say. Fe wants more love where they are affirmed for being what they are good at being extraverts they need to get this from the outside world.
RYU, you mentioned once in an old post that your mother called you a bad name once...this is Fe role and how it manifests in you. Not forgetting what someone does that effects your internal emotions about how you are perceived from the outside (needing affirmation of good words or nice comments from others). For the same reason, being put up on a pedestal is valued by LSE who feel magnanimous from this outside feedback. Fe is bad bad for you because you don't get the affirmation from them that you're an awesome person because they don't care to "boost" you up like that. Fi types do recognize internal qualities of the individual and make them feel good about themselves.