What should I do? I don't necessarily want a relationship with him but I want to be able to cuddle and be able to be cute with him without him thinking im just some crazy attached girl.

I've been in a situation like this, thought not with an ILI. And it was very nice for a while, then didn't work out so well...heheh

I've never dated an INTp, but personally I would need at least some sort of level of devotion, or at least making me the only person he does that with. I can't stand to picture ...sharing, bleck...and what happens when still nothing serious has happened, and he meets someone else and then you have to abruptly stop the cuddly times? You'd be able to take that okay? What if YOU meet someone else, and then have to leave him in the dust?

Er, sorry if I didn't help, lol