There's a book I've read part of (so far) called The Five Love Languages that suggests that different people express love and want to have love expressed primarily in one of five ways: compliments, physical touch, acts of service, spending time together, or gifts.
Could this be related to socionics type?
I think I like compliments, and spending time together. I can't decide which is more important to me.
I think my husband (ISTp) likes acts of service.