she's just testing your loyalty to her.. she likes you alot, but ILIs (i can tell you this, since i am one ..) take alot of reassurance before they genuinely "believe" the person. Constantly aware of bullshit.. But I think it won't be much of a problem for you guys. Just don't get confused about it. I doubt you will though. Amazing you actually found a female ILI... that is rare.