there is no benefit besides love, which I can see, which I can't provide for myself... without the need of an "other" ...
As for the other guy, well... you will eat your pie, but then later you will have terrible diahrrea.. explosive, painful diahrrea which lasts for quite a while.. I will simply starve to death. Not a very good solution either way really, ....except to brainwash an SEE-Se, which is my master plan. SEE does not give you diahrrea