Is it common for ENFPs to be forgetful? I forget things as commonly used as my phone number. I remember when I was back in high school I'd forget my locker combination like halfway into the school year, when I'd been using it several times a day up to that point. I also forget to bring things with me when I go places, like if I borrow a book from someone and need to return it. I have to put things to do, even very obvious things, on my calendar (Outlook, with a audible alarm reminder) or I forget to do things. I swear I'd forget to feed my daughter if she didn't tell me she was hungry when she needed to eat. I feel awful saying that because I work very hard to be good to her.
What is the liklihood that I can change that? Other people get annoyed by this. Particularly my mom.