I thought you were around my age. It's still a pretty shit thing to do though. Mess with her head just to break her up with this weirdo. Just tell he's a fruitcake and let her decide what to do.
I though the same thing, let her decide ... if it is not going to work it is not going to work.
But that's no FUN!!!
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin