Originally Posted by
discojoe
I disagree rmcnew. I believe what I am doing is something many people would not have the gall to do. Also, like I said before, I do not answer to socionics. I will determine the course of my own relationships, therefore I do not consider this to be self-destructive behavior.
Another point: I would not do this if I thought I would be hurting the person in question. I'm not THAT evil.
The problem is that what you just said is not true ... I think there is a whole heck of a lot of people who have the gull to mistreat people that way, which is what you do not seem to realize you are doing. I am even speaking from experience, because I use to be a lot like that also. But I am telling you, this behaviour is not going to bring you or anyone else happiness.
Now, it is not a matter of disagreement, though you might think that it is and will not listen. I think there might be a time where you will know better, and I hope it is soon because I hate seeing people learn the hard way.