Quote Originally Posted by uninspired
Also, "failed joke is less serious than someone deliberately trying to hurt other's feelings" is not an objective statement and we cannot make assumptions about what is more or less serious with other individuals.
Yes, it is an objective statement. Intentionally harming is worse than unintentionally harming.
how is it objective? did she state that her intent was to hurt you?
how is her assumption that you had intended to hurt you any different from your assumption that she intended to hurt you? (other than that it is YOU that is making the assumption this time )