Quote Originally Posted by Kristiina
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Failed joke is less serious than someone deliberately trying to hurt other people's feelings after having time to think about it. I could have understood if she had said all those things in the rush of anger right after the practical joke, but why say things like that after having time to cool down.
Her motives aren't explicit therefore they cannot be considered known and speculation upon them will not be treated truthfully. I don't see this thread as Fi vs. Fe. I see this situation as an example of a typical fi vs. fe conflict, but my personal stake in it is not to make an ethical judgement, but to show that people should be held responsible for their actions. Also, "failed joke is less serious than someone deliberately trying to hurt other's feelings" is not an objective statement and we cannot make assumptions about what is more or less serious with other individuals. There is no measure as there would be if this were a monetary issue or an issue of physical harm.