Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
Eh, it happens. That's life, right? But I think you really should be asking yourself if you want to stay in the relationship if you really think it has no long-term potential. So it seems like you have some tough decisions to make about your own personal life, especially given how much your bf has gone through to end up with you.

And yes, being a bit more simple like an SEI or ESE would certainly unburden you quite a bit for relationship problems.
This is why it's so hard. I feel incredibly selfish.
Yes, it doesn't sound easy but you're an individual and shouldn't have to stay in a dying relationship just for the sake of making it work. Again, you have some serious pondering to do, missy.