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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe View Post
    There's a special tool for when INFps start talking nonsense.

    HAHA!

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    You people are taking this too literally.
    Can't help it, I pretty much see things realistically. IEIs are like cryptic mystery boxes to me. And yet somehow, they appreciate me :/

    I feel the same way.
    I guess this is what it's all about then. IEIs and SLEs take FUCKING AGES to actually properly dualise because each is afraid of getting hurt by the other. It's extremely frustrating. Part of the reason I won't fully give myself to her is because I'm afraid of being hurt by her because she's afraid of being hurt by me. The only reason she's unsure is because she's being self-preservationist; she says she has to wait for certain things to happen, but those things are never going to happen unless she lets her guard down. Likewise, if I don't let my guard down, I can't show her I'm not going to hurt her.

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    what makes me cool?
    You are fucking cool. And hot.

    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    I like that Thompson quote, Starfall. People in this thread are interpreting it too dramatically I think.
    No way. I'm driven by guardedness. (See above)

    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    That's a lot of good Se perception.
    Why do you spend so much time posting in this forum? It's supposed to be everything you devalue/find virtually intolerable, and yet you seem to dedicate most of your energy to the Betas on this forum.

    I think I spy a Beta.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    I guess this is what it's all about then. IEIs and SLEs take FUCKING AGES to actually properly dualise because each is afraid of getting hurt by the other. It's extremely frustrating. Part of the reason I won't fully give myself to her is because I'm afraid of being hurt by her because she's afraid of being hurt by me. The only reason she's unsure is because she's being self-preservationist; she says she has to wait for certain things to happen, but those things are never going to happen unless she lets her guard down. Likewise, if I don't let my guard down, I can't show her I'm not going to hurt her.
    What do you mean "Give your self to"? Like opening up? Telling her how you really feel? Deep dark secrets?
    Easy Day

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    Quote Originally Posted by JWC3 View Post
    What do you mean "Give your self to"? Like opening up? Telling her how you really feel? Deep dark secrets?
    Ezra's all about the deep dark secrets. Did you know he was a hemaphrodite?:

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    You don't sound like you're in a good place.
    Au contraire, I'm in a fantastic place right now. I'm just overdramatic

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    Did you know he was a hemaphrodite?:
    ONLY YOU KNOW THIS. NOW THE FORUM KNOWS. FUCKER.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Au contraire, I'm in a fantastic place right now. I'm just overdramatic
    nothing cuter than an overdramatic SLE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    and people say you're not Beta. lol
    *MARITSA* says I'm not Beta. Does any other retard? Oh yeah, Ashton. HAH! What a retard.

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    ezra one can't be driven by guardedness. one can be guarded by being "driven" and not wanting to stay open in case there could be a problem. that's lazy and makes one wonder what one is being so driven in the pursuit off though.

    when one focuses too much on specific things other things can fall by the wayside... and sometimes one has to take into account the priorites of ones live.

    that said, speaking in the third person sucks after a while.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    that said, speaking in the third person sucks after a while.
    u make me laugh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Why is it or should it be something I devalue?
    You're not a Beta, so this energy isn't going to you.
    Sic 'em.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Why is it or should it be something I devalue?
    You're not a Beta, so this energy isn't going to you.
    you ravenous beast! how dare you let the likes of ezra in our fair circle.

    the dogs in full heat will be tempted by the flesh blood. and how shall we calm them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    you ravenous beast! how dare you let the likes of ezra in our fair circle.

    the dogs in full heat will be tempted by the flesh blood. and how shall we calm them?
    aren't you supposed to be sleeping. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    aren't you supposed to be sleeping. lol
    who am i to do as i should

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    you ravenous beast! how dare you let the likes of ezra in our fair circle.

    the dogs in full heat will be tempted by the flesh blood. and how shall we calm them?
    never stair down at a pit bull they say.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    never stair down at a pit bull they say.
    stare.


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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    stare.

    It'd probably push her down the stairs with it's fierce head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    It'd probably push her down the stairs with it's fierce head.
    ahhahaha

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