HAHA!
Can't help it, I pretty much see things realistically. IEIs are like cryptic mystery boxes to me. And yet somehow, they appreciate me :/
I guess this is what it's all about then. IEIs and SLEs take FUCKING AGES to actually properly dualise because each is afraid of getting hurt by the other. It's extremely frustrating. Part of the reason I won't fully give myself to her is because I'm afraid of being hurt by her because she's afraid of being hurt by me. The only reason she's unsure is because she's being self-preservationist; she says she has to wait for certain things to happen, but those things are never going to happen unless she lets her guard down. Likewise, if I don't let my guard down, I can't show her I'm not going to hurt her.I feel the same way.
You are fucking cool. And hot.
No way. I'm driven by guardedness. (See above)
Why do you spend so much time posting in this forum? It's supposed to be everything you devalue/find virtually intolerable, and yet you seem to dedicate most of your energy to the Betas on this forum.
I think I spy a Beta.