Well, the best way to prvent a messy divorce is to not rush things and take your time, making sure that when you find somebody, it's truly someone special. To be honest, I think people worry too much about finding someone ELSE to spend their life with, they neglect focusing on their own life and becoming independent, self-sufficient, complete human beings. Incomplete people make for incomplete relationships, and the divorce rate can attest to that.Originally Posted by uninspired