Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
I can only commit if I really, really like the person. Of course, I haven't met anyone whom I really, really like with intensity, so that makes me look like a commitmophobe to most people.
Same basically...and besides, i've noticed that I preffer older men. (between 28-38) However, Im in somewhat of a "situation" as I call it with a 40 yr old. Which I honestly, would probably commit to...where as if I were to meet a 22 yr old guy (my age) I probably wouldnt give him the time of day...even if he was INFp...I just cannot take young guys seriously. I need a man. And no...I dont have daddy-issues, me and my pops have a very good relationship.

But yes, Im a severe commitment-phobe..It takes quite a bit to win me over, but somehow the ones that do ALWAYS seem to be the wrong ones....like the 40yr-INFp....Or maybe, it's just that I set myself up for this kind of situation, where I know it wont work out. Just because, i KNOW it wont, and therefore I know I won't have to commit long term.