INFps: can you see yourselves with an ESTp longterm?

[Mea]

The key is to distinguish "solid" from "boring"

Yes. Very good point.

ehhe. my biggest fear in relationships is to become boring to my partner, honestly that kills love in my opinion

Well I can't imagine you boring. But then again, I'm an INFp. ha. I don't know. There is more to life than constant intrigue. Why are you worried you'll become boring to your partner? That is never something I've feared.

I don't know why but it really is a primary concern; I see so many couples going around cities that look bored, also if I were to see that my partner is somewhat bored of me I'd tell her straight away to get out the relationship if she wants, you can't live like that

diana: asked for a reason, they said that they "felt like doing it"

Wow. That's a very good reason!
Anyway, I too can't imagine ESTps being boring.

My ESTp friend seems commitment phobic. He's never been in a serious relationship. And his past flings, he wooed them for fun. Just to know he can, and dumped them after awhile. He's not done that in awhile though. He claims he's not longer afraid of commitment and that he's looking for a rich, beautiful wife so he doesn't need to work.