Okay, I think I know what you mean. I have seen couples in restaurants not talking, just sitting there, staring off into space. Yep that looks miserable. I guess my line of thinking is, I'm an interesting person. If he finds me boring then HE'S boring. Maybe that's why one of my requirements in my marriage is a certain degree of independence. I guess to cultivate my interests so that I don't become boring to myself. Honestly, becoming boring to myself would be the worst thing ever. As long as I find myself interesting, I don't expect anyone else to be bored. If they are, they can leave. Which is, I guess, basically what you said.Originally Posted by FDG