I imagine ESTp possessiveness comes into play here.

Real relationship material at first seems heavily J, that is, rational, commitment, solid, etc. But there must be something beyond that, because even J types struggle with it. There is likely a sincere balance between rational and irrational elements in both people's psyches one way or another, if they are to be a truly lasting relationship.


Right now, the only types I can see myself having a worthwhile relationship with are ENFjs and INTjs. I find that as a P-type, I value J-type behaviors from others very much. What do you all think?
Why do you say ENFj and INTj?

And, are you sure about your own type? (just a question)