How old are you, uninspired? I think, of all the dual types, the EXTps/IXFps need the most time to bed-hop and rove around for a while before finally settling down. We've finally reached a point in history when marriage is no longer necessary for financial stability, and now have the luxury to take our time before committing to a binding legal/religious contract, or even a long-term relationship. Unless your child-bearing years are fast coming to a close and you want to have children, take your time. Go out and date, enjoy the experience of meeting people for the sake of meeting people, and don't give a thought to commitment. True commitment is a natural extension of your feelings for another person; even an ESTp/INFp will keep coming back to each other when the balance is right.