Real life experienced with Beta INFp-ESTp and ISTj-ENFj Dualities

[betterthan]

Thanks guys <3!

Yes, that's good advice RB, really need to stop overthinking, it is paralyzing lol ><! Oh that's it =). Oh yeah, the boxer?

Are yours and your husbands relation that of of supervision? I really enjoy those relationships, I think they can be as good as quadra relations with the right person.

Yeah, that is also true, there are plenty of SLEs about ^-^. Just got to find them!

Thanks =)

lol that won't last for long... they are going to find someone that makes them crazy and take it all back. Oooh there's the suspense, maybe that's where the hope is coming from? I know I have to find him fast though ><!

Lol. Yeah, I let myself feel sad for a while yesterday to like cleanse or whatever. But I do feel strong enough, so that if I find he has moved on, it's not going to be really painful. Plenty more fish, and all that jazz .

But I will miss him <3.


Thanks Ezra ^-^.

[Ezra]

and... men are great. underneath it all, they have tender hearts too. just different ways of dealing with stuff sometimes.

*Melts* So understanding.

I really enjoy those relationships, I think they can be as good as quadra relations with the right person.

Yeah, I enjoy my relations with discojoe. If he indeed is

Plenty more fish, and all that jazz .

Exaaactly!

[Satan]

who turned this thread gay.

[ScarlettLux]

AHAHA! Classic. I love it. <3<3<3



LOL if he's found another IEI but is not over you. Then he'll be in the same position as you!

Except that... he isn't, because he's SLE. He'll make his choice.

My only advice is not to get hurt. Don't open yourself too much. I'm tired of seeing girls (a lot of them my friends) get hurt over guys and then parade around spouting out the dogma that "men are bastards" for the rest of their sorry-ass feminist, lesbian lives.

Man, this is really, really true.

And RB, totally agree that a lot of males have very, if not even more tender hearts than some females I know out there *cough* ... Or perhaps that's just my biased view of things, hmm? Always have gotten along better with the male specimens of this world.

Anywho -- do not get hung up over duality, relationships really do depend on the individual. What's going on with this IEI? Honestly, Beta NF - Beta NF relationships can be extremely loving. Just don't stray outside your quadra... Just kidding! =P

[Satan]

You never told me where you came from
You never told me your name
I didn't know if you were legal tender
But I spent you just the same
And I didn't know it could happen to me
But I fell in love in the first degree

It was love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
I was touched with too much

They told me it was disgustin'
They told me it was a sin
They saw me knocking on your front door
Saw me smile when you let me in
You and me baby we're all alone
Let's get something goin'
While your mum and dad ain't home

Love at first feel
It was love at first feel, just like a sin
Love at first feel
Feel good just like I knew it would, ah ah

Love at first feel
It was love at first feel
Love at first feel
It was love at first feel
Love at first feel, lightning bolts in my fingertips
Love at first feel
Love, whoo
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel

[redbaron]

Anywho -- do not get hung up over duality, relationships really do depend on the individual. What's going on with this IEI? Honestly, Beta NF - Beta NF relationships can be extremely loving. Just don't stray outside your quadra... Just kidding! =P

no, not kidding. I think that ideally, if you're not already hooked up with someone you love, this is good advice to stick to your quadra. Of course relationships depend on the individual and I really do love my husband, but for the greatest chance of long-term success, give yourself a leg up and go for an intra-quadra match.

[redbaron]

Yeah, I enjoy my relations with discojoe. If he indeed is

discojoe is hilarious.

[ScarlettLux]

no, not kidding. I think that ideally, if you're not already hooked up with someone you love, this is good advice to stick to your quadra. Of course relationships depend on the individual and I really do love my husband, but for the greatest chance of long-term success, give yourself a leg up and go for an intra-quadra match.

Yeah, I wasn't really kidding.

Oops. =P

[redbaron]

Are yours and your husbands relation that of of supervision? I really enjoy those relationships, I think they can be as good as quadra relations with the right person.


But I will miss him <3.

of COURSE you will miss him. There's no replacing people that way. You just kind of expand your heart to include someone new. There are people in my past I'll never forget, who I'll always care about.

yeah, my husband and I are supervisory. I think that relation works best when the introvert is the supervisor.

[redbaron]

Yeah, I wasn't really kidding.

Oops. =P

it's okay. you were probably just saying that for my benefit so I wouldn't feel bad that I'm not married to someone in my quadra. But I'm okay with it. Anyway, I do agree with you.

[Ezra]

who turned this thread gay.

You did, with a song, in about three minutes time.

And RB, totally agree that a lot of males have very, if not even more tender hearts than some females I know out there *cough* ... Or perhaps that's just my biased view of things, hmm? Always have gotten along better with the male specimens of this world.

Have you ever considered that you are a gay trapped in a female body? I knew a girl from college who was a gay trapped in quite an attractive female body, so maybe you're the same.

You never told me where you came from
You never told me your name
I didn't know if you were legal tender
But I spent you just the same
And I didn't know it could happen to me
But I fell in love in the first degree

It was love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
I was touched with too much

They told me it was disgustin'
They told me it was a sin
They saw me knocking on your front door
Saw me smile when you let me in
You and me baby we're all alone
Let's get something goin'
While your mum and dad ain't home

Love at first feel
It was love at first feel, just like a sin
Love at first feel
Feel good just like I knew it would, ah ah

Love at first feel
It was love at first feel
Love at first feel
It was love at first feel
Love at first feel, lightning bolts in my fingertips
Love at first feel
Love, whoo
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel
Love at first feel

GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

discojoe is hilarious.

Yeah, I realised I never actually finished that sentence. I meant to say "if he indeed is ESI, then I would agree that supervision relations can be pretty good sometimes".

And yes, I agree. He is very funny.

yeah, my husband and I are supervisory. I think that relation works best when the introvert is the supervisor.

What, because if it's an Extrovert supervisor, you have some motherfucker screaming at you all day about how you have major problems and how you should change and rahrahrahrahrah I'm leaving now, Scott. Bye... rahrahrahrahalwaysleaving

[redbaron]

What, because if it's an Extrovert supervisor, you have some motherfucker screaming at you all day about how you have major problems and how you should change and rahrahrahrahrah I'm leaving now, Scott. Bye... rahrahrahrahalwaysleaving

LOL!

[marooned]

ha. sounds like EIE-ILI to me.

[redbaron]

ha. sounds like EIE-ILI to me.

yeah. although my aunt is EIE and my uncle is SEI (with my uncle being the supervisor) and my aunt still yells at him puh-lenty! LOL

[Jimbean]

Yeah, I wasn't really kidding.

Oops. =P

Now were you really kidding or not woman!

[Ezra]

ha. sounds like EIE-ILI to me.

And at the opposite end of the EIE-ILI supervision scale, you have:

[betterthan]

of COURSE you will miss him. There's no replacing people that way. You just kind of expand your heart to include someone new. There are people in my past I'll never forget, who I'll always care about.

yeah, my husband and I are supervisory. I think that relation works best when the introvert is the supervisor.

Aw, I will remember that <3, that's lovely.

Oh god I agree about that last part. My supervisor friend is really pissing me off as of late! Sometimes we get on amazingly and just mess about and laugh over everything but other times he just bitches at me and it makes me want to just quit him, god! Though I do still think that these relations can be awesome, I guess it's more of an age thing than a relation thing.

[sigma]

My only advice is not to get hurt. Don't open yourself too much. I'm tired of seeing girls (a lot of them my friends) get hurt over guys and then parade around spouting out the dogma that "men are bastards" for the rest of their sorry-ass feminist, lesbian lives.

Protection is different for IEI than SLE.
SLE strengthens the armor to repel everything.
IEI protection comes from becoming ethereal, everything goes through him/her without leaving a mark.

My advice for my fellow IEIs is to listen to Anthony de Mello's workshops.



Become like the sky... let the clouds pass... and remain blue... and bright... and happy...
Don't try to make the white clouds stay longer, don't try to make the black clouds leave sooner... just watch them pass...