Examples of INTp Fe PoLR remarks

[Slade]

What I was trying to communicated is that Fe users (mostly dominant and creative) have constant need guage the emotional atmosphere. When they are uncertain or can't determine the emotional state of a person. They try to force a reaction out us instead of simply asking us or respecting the fact that we don't wish to share it with them. Acting as if they are entitled to an emotional connection with us..

I can agree with you on this. It's something I've noticed myself. They really do feel ENTITLED to some kind of connection and expression. And they also feel entitled to punish you if you don't give that to them. 100% true.

This is interesting, and I would like some concrete examples of this if it's possible. Being 1D Fe types, I have found that XLI's are generally unaware of how they are feeling in terms of emotion, and it is a place that is vulnerable for them so even if they are actually feeling a certain kind of way it won't be uncommon for them to deny it, not realize it, or not want to engage with that emotion. I dont believe their emotional assessments of themselves to be reliable in times of stress.

Now, this idea of Fe types being entitled to forcing an emotional connection and expression, what does that mean? I dont know what it looks like, and I am curious as to how that compares with types such as XEE's who have Fe demonstrative. Also, other than the examples, which is the main focus of this post, I am also curious if this extends towards all Fe valuing types regardless of Enneagram. Is it a an essential property of Fe to force emotional interaction and connectivity?

[Bertrand]

This is interesting, and I would like some concrete examples of this if it's possible. Being 1D Fe types, I have found that XLI's are generally unaware of how they are feeling in terms of emotion, and it is a place that is vulnerable for them so even if they are actually feeling a certain kind of way it won't be uncommon for them to deny it, not realize it, or not want to engage with that emotion. I dont believe their emotional assessments of themselves to be reliable in times of stress.

Now, this idea of Fe types being entitled to forcing an emotional connection and expression, what does that mean? I dont know what it looks like, and I am curious as to how that compares with types such as XEE's who have Fe demonstrative. Also, other than the examples, which is the main focus of this post, I am also curious if this extends towards all Fe valuing types regardless of Enneagram. Is it a an essential property of Fe to force emotional interaction and connectivity?

I don't feel like its an essential property but I do think its one that shows up more often than not (in Fe types). In fact I'd say its a pretty big milestone in terms of self understanding/enlightenment/health, etc that they recognize this in themselves and control it. I think its just a kind of cognitive bias that since they're viewing the world in terms of objective ethics and making the effort to do so (by this I mean maximizing positive Fe vibes--a precondition to this is "putting it out there" it feels "shady" to the Fe type if you don't, like you're creeping, etc), so should everyone else and if they don't they're wrong. Its the same hurdle Fi types have in understanding that Fe "fakeness" is really just others genuinely trying to do the right thing, and should be appreciated as such (at least inasmuch as it is not creating real problems)