Hello, well I pretty much said it in the title. I think I'm infj but am not sure. The main reason I wonder is because I am not an impassive sort of person, I am actually quite expressive, yet socionics describes infj as impassive and myers briggs ordinary sometimes describes infj as 'cold on the outside'. Yet I am clearly a warm, accepting person. The thing is, I can't really be anything else as I am definitely an NF, definitely a J, and definitely not an EJ in charge type person. I am not shy but rarely the initiator with relationships - I hate answering the phone etc - but when I am with people I am fun and friendly and talkative. Are you other infj out there impassive or not? Do you think I am on the wrong track?