Would you please consider the possibility that you might have an EII/IEI-bias? ESE-EII really doesn't work in my opinion. It is conceivable that your father is IEI so he would be the supervisor of your daughter. Relations of supervision work very well if the supervisor is in a superior position which is obviously the case here.
relations of supervision can look conformal for a time, but they inevitably deteriorate despite the connection between the supervisee's leading function and the supervisor's creative function. when the supervisor is in a contextually superior position in addition to his or her natural psychological superiority the supervision is magnified by a large degree. an example is having to be supervised at work by your socionics supervisor. you literally cannot do anything right.
you are not understanding socionics correctly and i suspect you have been influenced by MBTI esp when you reference personality page.
at the wiki, you can read up on the issue of j/p switch which essentially summarizes that MBTI "p" introverts are socionics "j" introverts and vice versa.
i speak on supervision having interacted with socionics supervisors and supervisees IRL. i am getting older, which means there's a lot of practical experience for me to draw on and in a wide variety of contexts.
You see it as a relation of supervision? I don't think so. I'm almost sure you consequently mix up supervison and illusion. Please don't be shocked but... yes... I'm pretty sure now....
i don't see how you are in a position to know the types of the people i am referring to.
Would you please check
- if your husband really has a lot of beta friends and your father really has a lot of delta friends
- if you conception of supervision and illusionary relations are consistent with the descriptions on socionics.com